“The Wisdom to be a Fool”

“The Wisdom to be a Fool”

Most people place a great deal of importance and priority on what they know and on control. Yet as I help my clients realize, both knowledge and control-while valuable-are over-rated in their power to create happiness and peace in life. So if being in control with...
“Don’t Let Your Holidays get Hijacked by the Past”

“Don’t Let Your Holidays get Hijacked by the Past”

 This time of year can be tough. Lots of being pitched to for spending money as love, to feel only “happy happy happy!”, and a body that simply wants more sleep due to less sunlight. Add spending time with family you chose to move away from, lots of...
“Are Ghosts Haunting Your Relationships?”

“Are Ghosts Haunting Your Relationships?”

In my last article “The Calculus of Relationship”  I talked about how simply pointing fingers at who is wrong in a relationship not going so well, does not make things better. In this follow-up article, I talk about how what may be wreaking havoc in a relationship may...
“Love More  Care Less”

“Love More Care Less”

There is a deceptively simple suggestion I offer to people working on themselves or their relationships -”love more, care less”. At first, most are surprised, for being told to care less is not what they are expecting from me. Yet, as I unfold more of what I am...