I’m Not A Fan Of You Being So Nice

I’m Not A Fan Of You Being So Nice

One of the common threads of the smart, capable people I work with is a childhood in which a parent would threaten or withhold love for having the child behave as the parent wanted. No, these are not childhoods where deprivation or poverty was present; quite the...
What’s Your Relationship With Your Power and Presence?

What’s Your Relationship With Your Power and Presence?

Expanding on what I call “the power of your presence” which is a way of holding and engaging power differently that the dominant model of power-over and power through fear. When I am working with someone seeking change in their life, we work with their relationship to...
How Time Flies!

How Time Flies!

Wow! Has it really been 2 years since I wrote to you last?? Time flies even when you’re living through a pandemic it seems. Time did become altered by the times of isolation and disruption in community and family rituals and events. Being on the Board of Health...