What Are You Placing Your Faith In?
In today’s newsletter I'm sharing some thoughts about becoming aware of what you place your faith in. Faith is powerful and what you place your faith in will have power in your life. Often people I work with have faith in their lacking worth, or...
Learning to Face Adversity
For the past 10 years, many of the people I’ve been working with are men and women coming off of an unhealthy relationship. One of the common “tells” of a person in an unhealthy relationship is the abdication of caring for themself and their needs....
Be Careful What You Claim
Last month’s newsletter generated emails from people wanting to know more about how to allow grief to have it’s way with them and people wanting to blame others for how they were feeling. Which got me thinking that it might be useful to offer some...
A New Year and More on Loss
It’s that time of year in New England when building a fire in the wood stove is part of my daily morning routine. The warmth of a wood stove fire is the best and helps mitigate the grey and cold that are hallmarks of New England winters. Many of...
Do You Have A Case Of “The Beiges”?
I am working with a client in his 40’s who’s wondering how he found himself in the marriage that almost killed him. Literally. He prides himself on being a good person, a nice guy, and his ex is clearly mentally challenged. He is thoughtful,...
Family Patterns Of Pain
This past weekend included a day we set aside to honor mothers and upcoming is a day for honoring fathers. I know from my work-and my own life-how such days can be a mixed bag or even painful reminders of expectations not met. Or what I call “the...
Be An Advocate For Yourself
Many of the people I work with are dealing with lawyers, be it for engaging a divorce or dealing with what I call post-divorce cleanup. One of the most common complaints I hear from my clients working with a lawyer is how the lawyer is not advocating for them.
What have you placed your faith in?
Faith is a powerful energy and what you have faith in will have power in your life. What you have faith in is instrumental to what you feel is possible for yourself in life and love. If you have faith you are worthy of love, you will not tolerate consistent bad behavior from those you love. And if you have faith in your not being worthy of love, you will tolerate such behavior.