“Is Nothing Sacred No More?”
I sit here on this Friday almost-summer morning, unable to attend to tasks I anointed for today. A practical list consisting of tending to my car’s need for an oil change, to weeding long neglected, and to tending my business. I spent yesterday in...
“The Wisdom to be a Fool”
Most people place a great deal of importance and priority on what they know and on control. Yet as I help my clients realize, both knowledge and control-while valuable-are over-rated in their power to create happiness and peace in life. So if being...
“What God Do You Answer To?”
Years ago I lived in a spiritual community important to the man I had married. Daily yoga and mediation formed the backbone of the community’s spiritual practice, along with learning Eastern wisdom and healing. The stated goal of the community-and...
“Are You Choosing Better or Bitter When Life Bites?”
Many women struggle with an injustice, a wrong done them by someone they love or by life. They believed being a good person insured them of good in life, yet now they find themselves struggling in an important relationship or their health under...
“Have You Forgotten the Most Important Valentine of All?”
"Have you forgotten the most important Valentine of all?" We are heading into Valentine’s Day and I remember with fondness, decorating many a shoebox with glitter and paper lace doilies for my classmates to put their Valentines into. Making the...
“Why Being a Good Girl Won’t Bring You Happiness”
"Why Being a Good Girl Won't Bring You Happiness" I am truly blessed to work with women who courageously take up change for being happier in their life and relationships. They are tired of compensating for their unhappiness with food, or shopping,...
“Don’t Let Your Holidays get Hijacked by the Past”
This time of year can be tough. Lots of being pitched to for spending money as love, to feel only "happy happy happy!", and a body that simply wants more sleep due to less sunlight. Add spending time with family you chose to move away from, lots...
“Are Ghosts Haunting Your Relationships?”
In my last article “The Calculus of Relationship” I talked about how simply pointing fingers at who is wrong in a relationship not going so well, does not make things better. In this follow-up article, I talk about how what may be wreaking havoc...